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Interestingly, I have a somewhat more conservative view on children killing parents. In the case of a child killing their good, loving, non-abusive parent, it honestly does seem just as bad if not worse than a parent killing their *adult* child (so leaving aside the issue of the abuse of vulnerable minors).

For me, it isn't a matter of authority at all, but one of *gratitude*. Good parents sacrifice so much for their children that it seems peculiarly monstrous to repay this love and sacrifice with murder.

And, while authority obviously played a major role in pre-modern disproportionate horror at parricide, I do think gratitude was a major factor as well. Note that some ethical systems, like Buddhist morality, explicitly classified murdering one's *mother* as even worse than murdering one's father. In a patriarchal context, killing a father would be an even greater offense against authority--but killing one's mother would be an even greater sin against gratitude, given the even greater sacrifices mothers make.

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Re: moral relativism when judging people of past eras, I think I would phrase it rather that it is _understandable_ why people did bad things (like hold others in slavery) given the context they were living in, and what their society was telling them was right / wrong, or acceptable / unacceptable, or normal / deviant. The people who were abolitionists in the context of the late 18th / early 19th century were doing something heroic. Obviously the world would be better if more of us had that kind of courage, but most of us just don't.

Contrariwise, people who will come out and speak _in favor_ of putting other supposedly-inferior classes of people in slavery, or argue that the South was doing people a favor by enslaving them (because at some statistical level, descendants of enslaved Africans are likely to be wealthier at this point than relatives who weren't enslaved), are engaging in a kind of moral anti-heroism. Bucking the consensus of your society in order to try to drag that consensus towards something _worse_ is a non-banal way to be evil.

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